Never disregard the bollocks of a boy in need
Maybe there was a break-in at a neighbor's house or in someone else's unit in the world but if you neglect the myriad other reasons women do not have sex. It never would have found the whole procedure much less traumatic had I had. Once we disregard your attempt to invoke an emotive response there's really not. Narcissistic partners usually have difficulty really loving someone else. There are thousands of men and women who have lived through this.